Since the day of Adam and Eve, boys and girls are seen as two different species opposite in nature and everything existing. If boys are left, girls are right, boys love blue and girls love pink, girls are emotional and boys are not and many such things. Times have changed now and it is pretty difficult to distinguish between girls and boys with their appearance. You can look around the streets, girls are in jeans with short hair and boys are with long hairs wearing all sort of accessories available around their body. This is just a lighter viewpoint over the whole thing. Not just the appearance but the thinking process has much changed. People have stopped thinking with that particular end line tag of boy and girl. People are much advanced and the world is growing. But a slight deeper observance.How much this has changed? Girls may dress up in jeans and tees and roam in the streets with much confidence but after the sunset there is still the sense of insecurity hovering around. Girls are as advanced as boys in every field. A girl has a job, she is financially secure, she is well to do in everything then why is it necessary to take a certain amount of luxury added while going to her so called real home after marriage. Why is it necessary to call every married woman as Mrs.wife though she has an identity of herself. There are still people who smiles but miserly with the born of a baby girl. Bachelor is still a tag of pride while spinsterhood comes with disharmony. When a man is a Phd holder he is Dr. man but when a lady is a Phd holder she is Dr. & Miss/Mrs. Lady. ( A real life example). When everyone believe in the trend of the growing henpecked husbands in the society, don't we think we are overlooking the society where husbands still bit his wife. When we are busy in the well developed cities running after money and luxury, are we over looking the thousands of houses where our modern ladies accepts compromises in every single step of life. Are we really growing when these things are still the same. Give a thought over it.
i did not like this blog because, we can never compare the most beautiful thing in the whole universe (women) with the most ugliest thing (men) . It is very obvious that stupids always do stupid things like dominating the other genre . It is really unfortunate that women are trying to imitate the men by wearing jeans and trying to do stupid management jobs in the world , by leaving their most wonderful feminine nature and the great forms of art that they naturally got.
ReplyDeleteThings keep changing, usually for the better :) Change has to come from both sides - girls have to recognise that they deserve better and boys have to understand that they need to give more respect. Problem being that these kinds of changes in thinking are slow to come through due to the generational nature of their existence.
ReplyDeleteAlthough You have to understand that both are fundamentally different beings. They can never be the same. It isn't fair for both to be the same. Note that I said "same" and not "equal".
Don't worry your little head too much, kiddo :) Things have a way of working themselves out.